"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Quick tip: No disrespect in my car

Incog

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I think we all have ran into the chick that will answer her cell phone while you two are hanging out.

Not in my car. When she does this in my car, I turn the volume all the way up of whatever we are listening to. I then sing the song.

Naturally she'll reach toward the volume dial. While you sing and go crazy, just don't allow her to turn it down, or off.

From my experience:

1) They laugh
2) They talk at the top of their lungs to whoever's on the phone
3) They end the convo ASAP.

I don't turn it down when they hang up, I finish singing the song.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Incog

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Kev07 said:
Haha... I think my friend would get in big trouble when she tells her mother that shes hanging out with "alexandra" on the phone while i'm singing in the background
I allow her to talk to her mom. If it's another guy though, forget it!
 

michaelhctam

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Incog said:
I think we all have ran into the chick that will answer her cell phone while you two are hanging out.

Not in my car. When she does this in my car, I turn the volume all the way up of whatever we are listening to. I then sing the song.

Naturally she'll reach toward the volume dial. While you sing and go crazy, just don't allow her to turn it down, or off.

From my experience:

1) They laugh
2) They talk at the top of their lungs to whoever's on the phone
3) They end the convo ASAP.

I don't turn it down when they hang up, I finish singing the song.
"Bring Bring...."
"Hello?"
*Turn music up*
"I am afraid to inform you that your father has died from a car crash"
"WHAT?!"
"YOUR DAD DIED IN A CAR CRASH JUST NOW!!"
"WHAT?!
*Puntz singing along looks at the girl to guage her reactions, then crashes car*

IRONY.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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diplomatic_lies

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I was in a friend's car when someone called me, to inform me that one of my friends had recently died in an accident.

Would you have turned up the music and done a sing-a-long?
 

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Incog said:
I think we all have ran into the chick that will answer her cell phone while you two are hanging out.

Not in my car. When she does this in my car, I turn the volume all the way up of whatever we are listening to. I then sing the song.

Naturally she'll reach toward the volume dial. While you sing and go crazy, just don't allow her to turn it down, or off.

From my experience:

1) They laugh
2) They talk at the top of their lungs to whoever's on the phone
3) They end the convo ASAP.

I don't turn it down when they hang up, I finish singing the song.
What you did is not funny but foolish. If she is so keen on talking to a third party, dump her ass in the street so she can carry on.
 

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As long as she ends the call relatively quick, its fine with me.
 
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