"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Quick Tip - moving through the convo.

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Hey dudes, I just noticed this.


lets say you're talking to a woman. conversation is going good, but you're not sure how to transition to something a bit more sensual.

easy, turn the conversation back to her interests, find something she really likes, then comment "you're a very passionate person" with a mysterious gaze in your eyes.

as soon as she agrees (no one is gonna disagree with being called "passionate") , talk about how you love passionate people in your life and tell her to talk about some of her more passionate moments with her sport, interests, hobbies, etc. gradually move that word "passionate" to romance and sex

then its all down hill from there :cool:
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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yeah thats pretty good I will give it a try.
 
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Good one. Everyone is (or likes to think) they are passionate about something. I need to work on "sexualizing" conversation, and this should help.
 
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