Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Quick Tip - moving through the convo.

THE_ADDMAN

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Hey dudes, I just noticed this.


lets say you're talking to a woman. conversation is going good, but you're not sure how to transition to something a bit more sensual.

easy, turn the conversation back to her interests, find something she really likes, then comment "you're a very passionate person" with a mysterious gaze in your eyes.

as soon as she agrees (no one is gonna disagree with being called "passionate") , talk about how you love passionate people in your life and tell her to talk about some of her more passionate moments with her sport, interests, hobbies, etc. gradually move that word "passionate" to romance and sex

then its all down hill from there :cool:
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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killbill

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yeah thats pretty good I will give it a try.
 

LongDrinkofWater

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Good one. Everyone is (or likes to think) they are passionate about something. I need to work on "sexualizing" conversation, and this should help.
 
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