"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Quick Tinder Question

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I just started using the app two nights ago and today I got matched with a Facebook friend, which I thought couldn't happen. I thought that Tinder won't show FB friends in possible matches. I don't think she made a second FB account because it's got a ton of pics and it links to her Instagram.

I'm gonna ask her tonight when I message her because we used to be friends IRL and hooked up before so it's not a big deal to talk to her. But I don't want FB friends showing up on Tinder and I don't want them to see me either.

So WTF is the deal with this?

The reason why I don't think it was her secondary account is because it showed a bunch of our mutual friends.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She probably has a separate facebook just for tinder.
 
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FCB said:
She probably has a separate facebook just for tinder.
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idk it didn't seem like it, but I guess i'll find out later.

So it's not normal to be matched with FB friends then? I can't find any sources verifying either way.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Golden Arms said:
I've seen and matched up w/ FB friends on Tinder
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Does anybody know how to prevent it or something? That's really dumb and pointless.
 
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