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I just started using the app two nights ago and today I got matched with a Facebook friend, which I thought couldn't happen. I thought that Tinder won't show FB friends in possible matches. I don't think she made a second FB account because it's got a ton of pics and it links to her Instagram.

I'm gonna ask her tonight when I message her because we used to be friends IRL and hooked up before so it's not a big deal to talk to her. But I don't want FB friends showing up on Tinder and I don't want them to see me either.

So WTF is the deal with this?

The reason why I don't think it was her secondary account is because it showed a bunch of our mutual friends.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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She probably has a separate facebook just for tinder.
 
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FCB said:
She probably has a separate facebook just for tinder.
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idk it didn't seem like it, but I guess i'll find out later.

So it's not normal to be matched with FB friends then? I can't find any sources verifying either way.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Golden Arms said:
I've seen and matched up w/ FB friends on Tinder
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Does anybody know how to prevent it or something? That's really dumb and pointless.
 
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