"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Quick Tinder Question

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I just started using the app two nights ago and today I got matched with a Facebook friend, which I thought couldn't happen. I thought that Tinder won't show FB friends in possible matches. I don't think she made a second FB account because it's got a ton of pics and it links to her Instagram.

I'm gonna ask her tonight when I message her because we used to be friends IRL and hooked up before so it's not a big deal to talk to her. But I don't want FB friends showing up on Tinder and I don't want them to see me either.

So WTF is the deal with this?

The reason why I don't think it was her secondary account is because it showed a bunch of our mutual friends.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She probably has a separate facebook just for tinder.
 
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FCB said:
She probably has a separate facebook just for tinder.
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idk it didn't seem like it, but I guess i'll find out later.

So it's not normal to be matched with FB friends then? I can't find any sources verifying either way.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Golden Arms said:
I've seen and matched up w/ FB friends on Tinder
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Does anybody know how to prevent it or something? That's really dumb and pointless.
 
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