"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Started talking to one of my matches on tinder today. Conversation was going well, teasing/flirting etc. Then we exchanged numbers. 15 minutes after exchanging numbers she says this

Her: Why have you got my number if you wont talk?
Me: 1sec im busy working on my project. Dont worry i got you :)

A little background. me and her are final year students at the same university. When talking on tinder she told me that next week she is going to be sitting alone in a corner in the library working on a lot of work. She also asked me questions like where I live on campus and other stuff. She doesnt live on campus but she drives to school sometimes to do some work and see her friends.

Some of the Tinder convo:

Her: yea i drive up there once a week, but i come come up to see my girls quite a bit x

me: well you have another reason to come now, guess what that is?

her: haha what?

me: to see me duhhh

her: oh really loooool. Bet im gonna see you around uni like all the time now -_-

me: im rarely there

her: im gonna be hiding in a corner in the library doing my work in the next week or so

then we exchanged numbers.

Im pretty sure this girl is interested because she was very enthusiastic and asked me a lot of questions which is a sign of interest. I have decided i wont text her tonight but wait till tomorrow evening to hit her up and make plans to meet up.

So my question to you guys is, how do you think i handled the situation when she complained about me not talking when i got her number? was this just a **** test?


ive been a lurker on this site for a while so big shout outs to harry willmington, Max and all the other good posters on this forum
thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think a better response to the **** test would be to ignore for a short amount of time then say something like you did.
 

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Yeah, After i said that, I texted her the next day when shes free to get together, she said she will be at school next friday and I can come and see her then. thats quite a long time but im going to keep spinning them plates. I also dont see her as much of a dating prospect as shes not really my type so just want a hook up. Talking to a Hungarian girl on tinder and she seems keen. Going to make plans with her too soon.
 

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Just becareful you keep your frame man, once it slips its hard to recover. call the shots and be prepared to walk, that's what i've learnt anyway!
 
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