"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quick tinder girl advice

freshlikeme

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Started talking to one of my matches on tinder today. Conversation was going well, teasing/flirting etc. Then we exchanged numbers. 15 minutes after exchanging numbers she says this

Her: Why have you got my number if you wont talk?
Me: 1sec im busy working on my project. Dont worry i got you :)

A little background. me and her are final year students at the same university. When talking on tinder she told me that next week she is going to be sitting alone in a corner in the library working on a lot of work. She also asked me questions like where I live on campus and other stuff. She doesnt live on campus but she drives to school sometimes to do some work and see her friends.

Some of the Tinder convo:

Her: yea i drive up there once a week, but i come come up to see my girls quite a bit x

me: well you have another reason to come now, guess what that is?

her: haha what?

me: to see me duhhh

her: oh really loooool. Bet im gonna see you around uni like all the time now -_-

me: im rarely there

her: im gonna be hiding in a corner in the library doing my work in the next week or so

then we exchanged numbers.

Im pretty sure this girl is interested because she was very enthusiastic and asked me a lot of questions which is a sign of interest. I have decided i wont text her tonight but wait till tomorrow evening to hit her up and make plans to meet up.

So my question to you guys is, how do you think i handled the situation when she complained about me not talking when i got her number? was this just a **** test?


ive been a lurker on this site for a while so big shout outs to harry willmington, Max and all the other good posters on this forum
thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think a better response to the **** test would be to ignore for a short amount of time then say something like you did.
 

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Yeah, After i said that, I texted her the next day when shes free to get together, she said she will be at school next friday and I can come and see her then. thats quite a long time but im going to keep spinning them plates. I also dont see her as much of a dating prospect as shes not really my type so just want a hook up. Talking to a Hungarian girl on tinder and she seems keen. Going to make plans with her too soon.
 

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Just becareful you keep your frame man, once it slips its hard to recover. call the shots and be prepared to walk, that's what i've learnt anyway!
 
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