"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Quick thoughts about being a man

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djbr

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You are supposed to be a man, not some fvckin idiot who has to make rude commentaries out of everything.

Being a man includes the way you carry yourself, your tone of voice, and your attitude. That's does NOT mean you're not supposed to be a fun, happy, positive person.

This is a trap that we must avoid. If you feel happy, be so! Don't get the stuff in this board so far as to ACT on one thing or another. Let your personality SHINE ALWAYS!!!

Cheers!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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GloriouslyInsane

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I like to see it like this,an afc thinks but does not act,a jerk acts without thinking,a man thinks and acts.
 
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A DJ should always be in a good mood, unless he has a very good reason not to be. You have so much more sucess with a smile n your face than without one. Especialy when your first meeting someone
 
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milrenkb

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DJBR I salute you.
 
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tmpgstx

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An AFC takes on the feminine roll when chasing a girl. This is why it turns them off. What we define here as being an Alpha Male has them chasing him.

Big difference. It's that difference that makes all the difference.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mountain

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tmpgstx said:
An AFC takes on the feminine roll when chasing a girl. This is why it turns them off. What we define here as being an Alpha Male has them chasing him.

Big difference. It's that difference that makes all the difference.
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don't get it ****ed up though... girls aren't really going to chase you (with a few drunken exceptions).

They will just make themselves more available for you to persue.
 
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Bvbidd

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You still always have to do the chasing. That's cool though because your not ugly and insecure. Are you?
 
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