"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quick thoughts about being a man

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djbr

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You are supposed to be a man, not some fvckin idiot who has to make rude commentaries out of everything.

Being a man includes the way you carry yourself, your tone of voice, and your attitude. That's does NOT mean you're not supposed to be a fun, happy, positive person.

This is a trap that we must avoid. If you feel happy, be so! Don't get the stuff in this board so far as to ACT on one thing or another. Let your personality SHINE ALWAYS!!!

Cheers!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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GloriouslyInsane

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I like to see it like this,an afc thinks but does not act,a jerk acts without thinking,a man thinks and acts.
 
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habdragon08

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A DJ should always be in a good mood, unless he has a very good reason not to be. You have so much more sucess with a smile n your face than without one. Especialy when your first meeting someone
 
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milrenkb

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DJBR I salute you.
 
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tmpgstx

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An AFC takes on the feminine roll when chasing a girl. This is why it turns them off. What we define here as being an Alpha Male has them chasing him.

Big difference. It's that difference that makes all the difference.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mountain

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tmpgstx said:
An AFC takes on the feminine roll when chasing a girl. This is why it turns them off. What we define here as being an Alpha Male has them chasing him.

Big difference. It's that difference that makes all the difference.
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don't get it ****ed up though... girls aren't really going to chase you (with a few drunken exceptions).

They will just make themselves more available for you to persue.
 
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Bvbidd

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You still always have to do the chasing. That's cool though because your not ugly and insecure. Are you?
 
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