"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok so here's a convo I just started with a 11/10 model girl and she was answering right away...should I leave it as is or continue this?

Me: BE tn? (BE=is a tuesday hotspot)

Her: Can't I have work -_-

Me: Managing Mcdonalds must have a demanding schedule :)

Her: Hahhaha yeah right

Leave her hanging? Or continue? I really want to invite her to this awesome place I go on Sundays but probably a little later in the week.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I kind of agree I feel like this was a solid interaction, because I met her on Saturday. Now she remembers who I am and that fun witty energy that she liked about me in the first place. Ideally I'd like her to text me first next time around, but that would be a longshot for a chick of this caliber. Any advice always welcome my bros.
 

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Nah Meast I don't necessarily believe that, this chick must get Harassed daily and meet new guys constantly. She is just absurdly good looking, but surprisingly friendly and semi intelligent...total package gunna be all mine
 

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Meast1525 said:
I don't think your mind is right bro.. Look you put yourself out there and if she wants it she will let you know. I think you are in jeopardy of heading down oneitis road and need to tread carefully. SHe KNOWS you are interested, so just give it some time. If you feel like you have to tease her daily then fine. At the very most I would wait a couple days and text her one more time to hang out... If she doesn't agree move on man.

Goodluck
This was the kids first interaction with this broad. If he is heading down oneitis road already, we got trouble.

I suggest texting her at a later date to setup for Sunday. Friday would be the day I'd do it, but I don't think it really matters. Problem with asking her today is that she has like 4 or 5 days to contemplate and wait for something better to come along.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ambition+positive thinking...not stuck on this girl at all, but it'd be cool to date a chick that is right on my level
 

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In10se said:
Nah Meast I don't necessarily believe that, this chick must get Harassed daily and meet new guys constantly. She is just absurdly good looking, but surprisingly friendly and semi intelligent...total package gunna be all mine

Meast is right and I'll explain why.

So you met a pretty attractive girl. BTW she's not an 11/10, that' ridiculous and your pedestaling her when she hasn't proven a god damn thing to you yet.

I'd tend to agree that she probably is AW'd with compliments, AFC's, orbiters you name trying to get with her.

But guess what?

99.9% of those guys are clueless, they have no game, they effectively struck out before they started.

If ANYTHING, when a girl is super hot and she gets hit on many times a day, the one guy who is the COMPLETE opposite, while still showing his interest will stand out to her like a black sheep in a field filled with white ones.

Now Suave had good advice too, and I don't see any harm in hitting her up again closer towards the weekend to try and set something up. But after that if she says she can't or doesn't counter offer, you know where you stand.

At that point I would leave it alone and you might be surprised because she might hit you up on her own the following week.





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In10se said:
ambition+positive thinking...not stuck on this girl at all, but it'd be cool to date a chick that is right on my level
BOOM - that's the right outlook!
 

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Yeah I am at a phase where I need to up my text game to convert solid numbers into lays/gfs/dates/ etc...so today I will take one more crack at this chick

I wanna keep it simple, smooth and get right to the point...

Hey xxxx, im thinkin we should hang out soon, whats your weekend looking like?

solid?
 

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In10se said:
Yeah I am at a phase where I need to up my text game to convert solid numbers into lays/gfs/dates/ etc...so today I will take one more crack at this chick

I wanna keep it simple, smooth and get right to the point...

Hey xxxx, im thinkin we should hang out soon, whats your weekend looking like?

solid?
DO NOT send her that text. It's the same text every chode she's given out her number to has sent. You gotta make her laugh and want to engage more with you.

Try this (if you must send one soon, which I'd advise against): "Hey xxxx, yeah, it's probably good you can't meet up right now. I'm a horrible, horrible person and we'd only end up ruining each other."

She's likely to both giggle and think Wha?

If she responds, especially with a smiley face or something like that, THEN you will know you probably can ask her out again...IN A FEW DAYS.

WARNING: I've not tried this with texts, but it has been GOLD online.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Honestly I think keeping it simple is a key to texting, its direct and personal. Sending her all kinds of weird **** is unnecessary, any other thoughts?
 
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