"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ok so here's a convo I just started with a 11/10 model girl and she was answering right away...should I leave it as is or continue this?

Me: BE tn? (BE=is a tuesday hotspot)

Her: Can't I have work -_-

Me: Managing Mcdonalds must have a demanding schedule :)

Her: Hahhaha yeah right

Leave her hanging? Or continue? I really want to invite her to this awesome place I go on Sundays but probably a little later in the week.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I kind of agree I feel like this was a solid interaction, because I met her on Saturday. Now she remembers who I am and that fun witty energy that she liked about me in the first place. Ideally I'd like her to text me first next time around, but that would be a longshot for a chick of this caliber. Any advice always welcome my bros.
 
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Nah Meast I don't necessarily believe that, this chick must get Harassed daily and meet new guys constantly. She is just absurdly good looking, but surprisingly friendly and semi intelligent...total package gunna be all mine
 
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Meast1525 said:
I don't think your mind is right bro.. Look you put yourself out there and if she wants it she will let you know. I think you are in jeopardy of heading down oneitis road and need to tread carefully. SHe KNOWS you are interested, so just give it some time. If you feel like you have to tease her daily then fine. At the very most I would wait a couple days and text her one more time to hang out... If she doesn't agree move on man.

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This was the kids first interaction with this broad. If he is heading down oneitis road already, we got trouble.

I suggest texting her at a later date to setup for Sunday. Friday would be the day I'd do it, but I don't think it really matters. Problem with asking her today is that she has like 4 or 5 days to contemplate and wait for something better to come along.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ambition+positive thinking...not stuck on this girl at all, but it'd be cool to date a chick that is right on my level
 
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In10se said:
Nah Meast I don't necessarily believe that, this chick must get Harassed daily and meet new guys constantly. She is just absurdly good looking, but surprisingly friendly and semi intelligent...total package gunna be all mine
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Meast is right and I'll explain why.

So you met a pretty attractive girl. BTW she's not an 11/10, that' ridiculous and your pedestaling her when she hasn't proven a god damn thing to you yet.

I'd tend to agree that she probably is AW'd with compliments, AFC's, orbiters you name trying to get with her.

But guess what?

99.9% of those guys are clueless, they have no game, they effectively struck out before they started.

If ANYTHING, when a girl is super hot and she gets hit on many times a day, the one guy who is the COMPLETE opposite, while still showing his interest will stand out to her like a black sheep in a field filled with white ones.

Now Suave had good advice too, and I don't see any harm in hitting her up again closer towards the weekend to try and set something up. But after that if she says she can't or doesn't counter offer, you know where you stand.

At that point I would leave it alone and you might be surprised because she might hit you up on her own the following week.





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ambition+positive thinking...not stuck on this girl at all, but it'd be cool to date a chick that is right on my level
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BOOM - that's the right outlook!
 
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Yeah I am at a phase where I need to up my text game to convert solid numbers into lays/gfs/dates/ etc...so today I will take one more crack at this chick

I wanna keep it simple, smooth and get right to the point...

Hey xxxx, im thinkin we should hang out soon, whats your weekend looking like?

solid?
 
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Yeah I am at a phase where I need to up my text game to convert solid numbers into lays/gfs/dates/ etc...so today I will take one more crack at this chick

I wanna keep it simple, smooth and get right to the point...

Hey xxxx, im thinkin we should hang out soon, whats your weekend looking like?

solid?
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DO NOT send her that text. It's the same text every chode she's given out her number to has sent. You gotta make her laugh and want to engage more with you.

Try this (if you must send one soon, which I'd advise against): "Hey xxxx, yeah, it's probably good you can't meet up right now. I'm a horrible, horrible person and we'd only end up ruining each other."

She's likely to both giggle and think Wha?

If she responds, especially with a smiley face or something like that, THEN you will know you probably can ask her out again...IN A FEW DAYS.

WARNING: I've not tried this with texts, but it has been GOLD online.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Honestly I think keeping it simple is a key to texting, its direct and personal. Sending her all kinds of weird **** is unnecessary, any other thoughts?
 
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