"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Quick ! Stop me before i pick up the phone

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Originally posted by Blackstar
^^^Needless to say that she never called me and still as of right now hasnt called me yet, so yes im am about to delete her number in all forms fuk that bit ch!!
You lost bud, you lessened your chances by calling her and just because she doesn't call a guy doesn't make her a biatch!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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^^^Bwaaa, when we talked we talked as always, i didnt make no deal about it, i didnt notice any change in her attitude or way of talking to me, i dont think i lessened anything but anyways, she is history, now if she does call me i will let her know that i aint with all the bs.
 
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