"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Guys, I need ideas urgently - in 4 hours I am supposed to meet her. I arranged a date with this girl,using another chick to call her.She doesn't know I am coming. It could be potentially risky, even dangerous situation - she might explode when she realises I am the one who "set her up".
Idea one - I get another friend to meet her, and delicately negotiates that I am going to appear. Sounds reasonable...Anyone got better idea?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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WTF? elaborate some... explain how you met her and everything that was said...
 
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steveoo5

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tell the chich that set it up to tell the one you like that you are coming but don't know she is there
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dude, get a grip.

Go to the mirror, take off your pants, and check to see if you have any balls.

This is the DON JUAN DICUSSION FORUM, not an AFC convention.

You don't hvae a date, you are going to stalk a girl you like.

Don't go. You really, really need to re-evaluate where you are in your personal progress.

You want to be sucessful with women, but you fear rejection to the point where you ask a nother girl to setup a date with you, and the girl doesn't even know you are coming?

You need to work on your confidence in the worst way.
 
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Hey,

Your never going to get any pvssy playing stupid games like this.

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