"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lizardking82

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Got to know girl 3 weeks ago, about a couple of days ago she came for a date straight to my place. Says she's a virgin, I quite believe her judging by the way she behaves and acts. However, things escalated quite a lot as we kissed passionately, I touched her body (not *****), touched her boobs, licked her boobs, we started dry humping with clothes on and then she was gonna leave. She was very comfortable, I could feel it clearly.

That is OK with me since I did not wanna rush it, I was enjoying the time with her actually. Now, a couple of days later, I let her know that since I currently live with a friend of mine, I will be completely alone 4 days in this weekend. She says "Let's see". I ask her to let me know if she can/wants to come cause if not, I can arrange my weekend otherwise. She goes on to flake with a very flakey answer type of sheet "I got some analysis to do bla bla bla" and then she goes on to the real reason "I think we should not meet so often" and I tell her "Once a week is not often" and it really is not LOL

In the end, she said "Things were pretty intense last time, I think we meet this often, they will get more intense". In two words, she's insecure we will have sex next time or the time after that and she knows she ain't got much more to offer other than her body. I told her "OK, gotta run, catch up later, bye bye" and I intend to leave her like that without contact at all until she contacts me and wants to meet.

Right or wrong decision?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Glassguy

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2 options here:

You made your intentions known and left the ball in her court. Walk away and see how she reacts if you just want to smash her.

If you want to keep seeing her and the sechs can wait, let her know that. Her anti sloot defense will not be as high and you know it will eventually happen if you give it a little more time.

It just depends on what you want with her. If a chick is worth dating, I will sometimes not push to smash her right away, and keeps me interested.
 

BetterCallSaul

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Sounds like there may be a decent possibility that one day that you have the place to yourself, she's gonna message you urgently at like 10pm saying she wants you to f*ck her. Not saying it's a guarantee here, but just sounds like a possibility.
 

Julian

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She wants it bro..pursue pursue pursue!!! Make her ass feel wanted..needed....yearned for. But without being desperate. Always be ****y and tongue in cheek. When she said things got intense you should jave responsed "yeah..our energy was very intense...it was exciting dont you agree? ;)"


Nothing she says can phase u. Have that mindset and u will go far. Invite her over for a movie..have some wine and bang her bro
 
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