"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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PlayToWin

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So I meet these 4 girls about a week ago. Chatted them up but nothing beyond that. So I see one of the girls 2 days ago, and she says other girl "HB7" thinks I am hot and gives me the girls number

I say "This is so and so.....ect, what are you up to tonight"
Her reply "Just chillen with some soriority sisters, you?"
I say "Going out ect.

Then Tonight I just got a text from an unknown number telling me to text the HB7

My Text to HB7"hey what are you up to tonight"
Her reply "Oh I'm with some girlfriends at the (insert bar name), what about you?"


So far I have not responded yet and its been about 40 minutes. I don't want to go up to the bar because none of my friends will go, and it would look bad to go there just for her without any of my friends. However I don't know how I should respond, as I want to seize the fact that she still has high interest, and will most likely be drinking tonight. Secondly I am going to be very busy this next week or so, and won't have much time to fit her into my schedule and I want to strike while its hot.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Effington

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Just tell her you're busy tonight, either make plans for a later date or tell her you'll text/call her another time.

I'm curious, though...how old are you two? This seems very high school-ish of her.
 
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Who cares that your friends aren't going to the bar? Do you really need them to hold your hand?

Go to the bar, meet people, dance with this girl, take her home and bang her.
 
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SharinganUser said:
Who cares that your friends aren't going to the bar? Do you really need them to hold your hand?

Go to the bar, meet people, dance with this girl, take her home and bang her.
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Nice. :up:
 
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Effington has it wrong. Go to the bar, dance with her, work your game the best to your ability. Don't wait for a day date. You're in college and you're young, college women think the same thing. They live in the moment. If she doesn't drink enough at the bar or you guys have a crappy time, try to get her back to your place, and if you can have alcohol available. If her friends are ****blocking, try to find a house party to try to lure them to so other guys can distract them. Kino, fluff, kino, fluff, look for a sign of interest, ISOLATE, ISOLATE, ISOLATE. Your boys suck btw, not helping you out here. You should let them know it.

If it doesn't work out, you win some, you lose some, and you'll have a better idea on what to do next time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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