"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PlayToWin

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So I meet these 4 girls about a week ago. Chatted them up but nothing beyond that. So I see one of the girls 2 days ago, and she says other girl "HB7" thinks I am hot and gives me the girls number

I say "This is so and so.....ect, what are you up to tonight"
Her reply "Just chillen with some soriority sisters, you?"
I say "Going out ect.

Then Tonight I just got a text from an unknown number telling me to text the HB7

My Text to HB7"hey what are you up to tonight"
Her reply "Oh I'm with some girlfriends at the (insert bar name), what about you?"


So far I have not responded yet and its been about 40 minutes. I don't want to go up to the bar because none of my friends will go, and it would look bad to go there just for her without any of my friends. However I don't know how I should respond, as I want to seize the fact that she still has high interest, and will most likely be drinking tonight. Secondly I am going to be very busy this next week or so, and won't have much time to fit her into my schedule and I want to strike while its hot.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just tell her you're busy tonight, either make plans for a later date or tell her you'll text/call her another time.

I'm curious, though...how old are you two? This seems very high school-ish of her.
 
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Who cares that your friends aren't going to the bar? Do you really need them to hold your hand?

Go to the bar, meet people, dance with this girl, take her home and bang her.
 
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SharinganUser said:
Who cares that your friends aren't going to the bar? Do you really need them to hold your hand?

Go to the bar, meet people, dance with this girl, take her home and bang her.
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Nice. :up:
 
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Effington has it wrong. Go to the bar, dance with her, work your game the best to your ability. Don't wait for a day date. You're in college and you're young, college women think the same thing. They live in the moment. If she doesn't drink enough at the bar or you guys have a crappy time, try to get her back to your place, and if you can have alcohol available. If her friends are ****blocking, try to find a house party to try to lure them to so other guys can distract them. Kino, fluff, kino, fluff, look for a sign of interest, ISOLATE, ISOLATE, ISOLATE. Your boys suck btw, not helping you out here. You should let them know it.

If it doesn't work out, you win some, you lose some, and you'll have a better idea on what to do next time.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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