"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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quick reply for are u single...

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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haha thats a good one kings_royalty ,nah you sometimes get thrown off guard and, takes ya awhile to think of something on the spot
 
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or you could say 'why, you aren't going to propose are you?'.

True, it's hard to come up with a good response every time, but if you lean back and relax; (don’t worry about what she thinks) you'll be surprise how easy it really is.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why would you feel "caught offguard" if a girl asks if you're single? Just tell her the truth, and if she asks why, just say you haven't found a girl you like enough or that you're picky or whatever.
 
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Just due to the fact ,you dont want to wreck your game based on that,I just think chicks overanalyse that question ,If you say yes im single, well why is he single is he a player ,whats wrong with him etc that kind of thing ,Im just trying to come up with one, that suits and caters all and works for me not against me.thanks again for your input
 
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Anfz said:
Just due to the fact ,you dont want to wreck your game based on that,I just think chicks overanalyse that question ,If you say yes im single, well why is he single is he a player ,whats wrong with him etc that kind of thing ,Im just trying to come up with one, that suits and caters all and works for me not against me.thanks again for your input
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I think you're the one overanalyzing it.
 
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Anfz said:
Whats the best thing to say to this ?
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Her: "Are you single?"

and you, like a smooth playa, yet a MAN. you say Straight up, no games..

You: " Yes i am".

Then act like nothing.. your just answering her question.. See her reaction and then proceed. Easy man.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warboss Alex said:
Telling the truth avoids problems in later life.
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Thats right. :up:
 
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If you’re single say "I'm Dating, nothing serious" That way it doesn’t sound like your desperate, and your open to the possibility.
 
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HB: "Are you single?"

PUA/DJ: "Why - You looking to upgrade?"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I just say, "sorry i have a girlfriend i don't think she would be too happy if i went out with other people" and thats true and i actually have said that a few times lately.
 
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cool
 
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dont u have other things to worry about than answering such a simple straightforward question?

by the way, THE best answer to that would be "what do YOU think?" - then u can judge by her reaction just how into u she is, aka if she says "well i wanted to know how its possible for a guy like u to be single" then OBVIOUSLY ur in and if u dont even up gettin laid then ur a FOOL!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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