"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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haha thats a good one kings_royalty ,nah you sometimes get thrown off guard and, takes ya awhile to think of something on the spot
 
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or you could say 'why, you aren't going to propose are you?'.

True, it's hard to come up with a good response every time, but if you lean back and relax; (don’t worry about what she thinks) you'll be surprise how easy it really is.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why would you feel "caught offguard" if a girl asks if you're single? Just tell her the truth, and if she asks why, just say you haven't found a girl you like enough or that you're picky or whatever.
 
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Just due to the fact ,you dont want to wreck your game based on that,I just think chicks overanalyse that question ,If you say yes im single, well why is he single is he a player ,whats wrong with him etc that kind of thing ,Im just trying to come up with one, that suits and caters all and works for me not against me.thanks again for your input
 
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Anfz said:
Just due to the fact ,you dont want to wreck your game based on that,I just think chicks overanalyse that question ,If you say yes im single, well why is he single is he a player ,whats wrong with him etc that kind of thing ,Im just trying to come up with one, that suits and caters all and works for me not against me.thanks again for your input
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I think you're the one overanalyzing it.
 
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Anfz said:
Whats the best thing to say to this ?
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Her: "Are you single?"

and you, like a smooth playa, yet a MAN. you say Straight up, no games..

You: " Yes i am".

Then act like nothing.. your just answering her question.. See her reaction and then proceed. Easy man.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Warboss Alex said:
Telling the truth avoids problems in later life.
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Thats right. :up:
 
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If you’re single say "I'm Dating, nothing serious" That way it doesn’t sound like your desperate, and your open to the possibility.
 
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HB: "Are you single?"

PUA/DJ: "Why - You looking to upgrade?"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I just say, "sorry i have a girlfriend i don't think she would be too happy if i went out with other people" and thats true and i actually have said that a few times lately.
 
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cool
 
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dont u have other things to worry about than answering such a simple straightforward question?

by the way, THE best answer to that would be "what do YOU think?" - then u can judge by her reaction just how into u she is, aka if she says "well i wanted to know how its possible for a guy like u to be single" then OBVIOUSLY ur in and if u dont even up gettin laid then ur a FOOL!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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