"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quick Question

BuccGuy

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I'm dating a mature woman, we've been on three dates and it's gone great, kissed on the third.

So I call last Tuesday and she says she will rearrange her schedule so that we can go out next Tuesday. I said great, call me when you get it done and we'll make plans.

Well that was 6 days ago and no call yet. She and I have yet to play any games in this relationship, is she starting?

Or am I not pursuing enough?

She seems really into me, maybe I'm just a bit overeager. :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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guitaronfire411

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Maybe something she liked better came up?

Girls usually won't phone you back, so give her *1* call and see what's up. Don't be too optimistic, though.

Women can be busy too.
 

Smooth Player 056

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Yeah, I agree with shezzler......DO NOT pay for dates, until you have slept with her. Make that a rule of yours....dating is for tools.
 
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