"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BuccGuy

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I'm dating a mature woman, we've been on three dates and it's gone great, kissed on the third.

So I call last Tuesday and she says she will rearrange her schedule so that we can go out next Tuesday. I said great, call me when you get it done and we'll make plans.

Well that was 6 days ago and no call yet. She and I have yet to play any games in this relationship, is she starting?

Or am I not pursuing enough?

She seems really into me, maybe I'm just a bit overeager. :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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guitaronfire411

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Maybe something she liked better came up?

Girls usually won't phone you back, so give her *1* call and see what's up. Don't be too optimistic, though.

Women can be busy too.
 
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Yeah, I agree with shezzler......DO NOT pay for dates, until you have slept with her. Make that a rule of yours....dating is for tools.
 
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