"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Quick Question

BuccGuy

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I'm dating a mature woman, we've been on three dates and it's gone great, kissed on the third.

So I call last Tuesday and she says she will rearrange her schedule so that we can go out next Tuesday. I said great, call me when you get it done and we'll make plans.

Well that was 6 days ago and no call yet. She and I have yet to play any games in this relationship, is she starting?

Or am I not pursuing enough?

She seems really into me, maybe I'm just a bit overeager. :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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guitaronfire411

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Maybe something she liked better came up?

Girls usually won't phone you back, so give her *1* call and see what's up. Don't be too optimistic, though.

Women can be busy too.
 

Smooth Player 056

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Yeah, I agree with shezzler......DO NOT pay for dates, until you have slept with her. Make that a rule of yours....dating is for tools.
 
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