"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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happymeal88

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Long time reader, new poster....

Called up a girl this morning around noon and we talked for about two minutes. I asked her what she was doing today in the hopes of hanging out, but she said she had pratice from 1 to 4. But then she said "what are you doing tonight?" and when I said "Not sure yet" she said "Call me, I'll talk to you later" and we said our good-byes.

Should I call her? I don't want to seem desperate, but I do want to go out with her.

Thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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oakraiderz2

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Go out with your friends then give her a call.
 

Jerky Boi

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Call her but make sure you're already busy doing something and maybe set something up another day.
 

McKindley

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Yea, go out with the guys, and give her a call, "hey, I'm out with the guys, but I remembered I was supposed to call you. You can hang out with us if you like."

If she isn't down with that, tell her, "I'll be giving you a call in a few days. We'll set something up then."

And then do that. Just don't call her if you're just sitting around the house with nothing to do. That type of stuff is fine if she's just a friend, but if you're looking for ass, you need to at least pretend that you have more going on in your life than you do.
 
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