"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I've been looking through this stuff on attention *****s and sunshine girls. I gathered most of the information I need except on part.

I met a girl at a dance club on Monday, I asked for her #. She gave it to me. What I want to know is that do attention *****s usually ask for your # is well? I called her on Wed. and she said she was busy this weekend and that she'd call me back.

Sorry if this was mentioned in on of the other threads on the archives. If it is just direct me please.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Don't ever give a girl your number, it gives her too much control. Tell her your phoneline is down or some ****. you have to call her.
 

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Originally posted by jonny football hero
Don't ever give a girl your number, it gives her too much control. Tell her your phoneline is down or some ****. you have to call her.
I did call her. She said that she would call me back, I asked her if she'd be interested in going out after she got off work on Saturday. She replied "Maybe. We'll see. Let me give you a call later on."

I'm going to see her at work on in about a week anyway, so if she doesn't call I'll just move on.
 

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Originally posted by cyjay201
"Maybe. We'll see. Let me give you a call later on."


Translation='I'm not interested in you, but I don't have the heart to come out and tell you.'

Sorry bro, looks like you've lost this one. Don't worry though, it happens to everyone. Best thing for you to do is chalk it up as a loss and move on, learn from it.

asked her if she'd be interested in going out after she got off work on Saturday

Don't ask, assume she wants to and go from there. Next time say something like...'I'm going to catch a movie at (whatever time), try not to be late, see you there'. Get it?
 

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Don't ask, assume she wants to and go from there. Next time say something like...'I'm going to catch a movie at (whatever time), try not to be late, see you there'. Get it? [/B][/QUOTE]

Well I actually didn't say it exactly like that, I said the words "Let's hang out on Saturday" she told me she had work. I know she's not lying though either because I work in the same place with her.

You're probably right though, I'll just move on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Screw this. I read most of the DJ Bible again, and I'm not going to waste my time.

After tomorrow it will be three days. I'm calling the ho, telling her I have better things to do with my time and that if she can't committ on a certain day in the near future then she won't be receiving anymore calls from me.
 

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Originally posted by cyjay201
Screw this. I read most of the DJ Bible again, and I'm not going to waste my time.

After tomorrow it will be three days. I'm calling the ho, telling her I have better things to do with my time and that if she can't committ on a certain day in the near future then she won't be receiving anymore calls from me.
NOOO
Dont waste your energy on her
like biker_gixxer said
"Maybe. We'll see. Let me give you a call later on."


Translation='I'm not interested in you, but I don't have the heart to come out and tell you.'

dont bother just learn from this next you have a better game with anothr girl
 

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Originally posted by finesse
NOOO
Dont waste your energy on her
like biker_gixxer said
"Maybe. We'll see. Let me give you a call later on."


Translation='I'm not interested in you, but I don't have the heart to come out and tell you.'

dont bother just learn from this next you have a better game with anothr girl
Interesting because she called me earlier today. She told me she couldn't go out tonight because she had to be somewhere early the next morning.

I didn't offer another date, I told her I was going to be busy and that we'll just see what happends.

Then she asked if we could meet up at the next football game when our two schools played eachother.

It may not lead to anything, she was probably just trying to be polite, I'm still going to move on and not call her anymore though.
 
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