"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Quick Question
- Thread starter goons
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TheException
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In your situation though, just counteroffer. Say "im busy that day...what day are you free next week"
Thanks for the timely response, my skills are a bit rusty.
Uncharted
Master Don Juan
If she wants to go, it's not like saying it one way will make her want to go more than the other. On the other hand, if she's busy Thursday you're screwed. My new way allows her to say "well I'm free Tuesday - does that work?" and if it does I say yes. Otherwise, I can say "no but I'm free Wed, Thurs does that work for you?"
Tonight I saw a woman in her early 20s twenties literally surrounded by 5 30 year olds. She was the center of attention and they were all vying for her attention. Its disgusting what the male race has become and subject to our own creation
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tonight I saw a woman in her early 20s twenties literally surrounded by 5 30 year olds. She was the center of attention and they were all vying for her attention. Its disgusting what the male race has become. We have become slaves of entitled women.
Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
I just find it humorous, but I get your point.goons said:The male race has become too pussified we are too afraid to allow for a working woman to enter our universe there is no time constraint leave it all open ended and let the chips fall where they may.
Tonight I saw a woman in her early 20s twenties literally surrounded by 5 30 year olds. She was the center of attention and they were all vying for her attention. Its disgusting what the male race has become. We have become slaves of entitled women.
I find that many men are looking to fall back on relationships for the fulfillment that they didn't receive in their work. That's why you should focus on life more than women, and make women a PART of life, not life itself.
I agree, women make up a piece of the pie. Weak men have created a virus that keeps evolving.nd adapting at pace that is hard to keep up with.Sneevox said:I just find it humorous, but I get your point.
I find that many men are looking to fall back on relationships for the fulfillment that they didn't receive in their work. That's why you should focus on life more than women, and make women a PART of life, not life itself.