"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
TheException
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In your situation though, just counteroffer. Say "im busy that day...what day are you free next week"
Thanks for the timely response, my skills are a bit rusty.
Uncharted
Master Don Juan
If she wants to go, it's not like saying it one way will make her want to go more than the other. On the other hand, if she's busy Thursday you're screwed. My new way allows her to say "well I'm free Tuesday - does that work?" and if it does I say yes. Otherwise, I can say "no but I'm free Wed, Thurs does that work for you?"
Tonight I saw a woman in her early 20s twenties literally surrounded by 5 30 year olds. She was the center of attention and they were all vying for her attention. Its disgusting what the male race has become and subject to our own creation
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tonight I saw a woman in her early 20s twenties literally surrounded by 5 30 year olds. She was the center of attention and they were all vying for her attention. Its disgusting what the male race has become. We have become slaves of entitled women.
Sneevox
Senior Don Juan
I just find it humorous, but I get your point.goons said:The male race has become too pussified we are too afraid to allow for a working woman to enter our universe there is no time constraint leave it all open ended and let the chips fall where they may.
Tonight I saw a woman in her early 20s twenties literally surrounded by 5 30 year olds. She was the center of attention and they were all vying for her attention. Its disgusting what the male race has become. We have become slaves of entitled women.
I find that many men are looking to fall back on relationships for the fulfillment that they didn't receive in their work. That's why you should focus on life more than women, and make women a PART of life, not life itself.
I agree, women make up a piece of the pie. Weak men have created a virus that keeps evolving.nd adapting at pace that is hard to keep up with.Sneevox said:I just find it humorous, but I get your point.
I find that many men are looking to fall back on relationships for the fulfillment that they didn't receive in their work. That's why you should focus on life more than women, and make women a PART of life, not life itself.