“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ok met this girl a year ago, we hung out alot almost for around 7-8months then we decided it was best to be friends and we didnt talk at all for 3months. So a month ago we started talking some again and she comes over atleast once a week and we hook up but she keeps saying that this shouldnt be happening because we are just friends and that is all she is looking for. I am always just like, well I'm glad thats all your looking for because friends is good with me. I wouldnt mind to have more though, but no big deal if we dont. Plus she has a cousin that she keeps on and on about me going out with I keep saying no that I'm not interested.... How should I play this whole situation to get her to want more than a friendship?????and not get stuck completely in the friend zone....
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ok met this girl a year ago, we hung out alot almost for around 7-8months then we decided it was best to be friends and we didnt talk at all for 3months. So a month ago we started talking some again and she comes over atleast once a week and we hook up but she keeps saying that this shouldnt be happening because we are just friends and that is all she is looking for. I am always just like, well I'm glad thats all your looking for because friends is good with me. I wouldnt mind to have more though, but no big deal if we dont. Plus she has a cousin that she keeps on and on about me going out with I keep saying no that I'm not interested.... How should I play this whole situation to get her to want more than a friendship?????and not get stuck completely in the friend zone....
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Uh.....could you be a little more specific? Like when you say that you two hung out for 7-8 months,what do you mean by this? What were you guys actually doing when you were "hanging out"? Another thing:You say that she comes over to your place once a week and you two "hook up". Define "hook up".
 
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When we hung out for the 7-8 months we never had a status but it wasnt a "friendship" only relationship we were only seeing each other and then one day she was like maybe we should just be friends and I was like yea you know what that is probably for the best, so we didnt talk for a few months and we ended up talking a few times and she has came over 5 or 6 times and it always ends up with some kind of sexual activity happening, but she always says I can't come back over because we just need to be friends and this doesnt need to happen but she comes anyway and I always say thats cool whatever you want to do....and she is always trying to hook me up with her cousin and I always say no I'm just not interested...weird situation. Thanks
 
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well I would like to keep getting it and not screw it up..just wondering why she keeps throwing this friendship thing up and also the cousin crap...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So let me get this straight. You were friends and hung out a lot for 7-8 months. Both of you decided to just be friends. What prompted this decision?

You have no contact for 3 months.

You started talking again one month ago and now you are having sex.

How did you go from no contact to sex in the one month period of time?

Since you two are having sex you aren't in the friendzone.

What do you want from this girl?
 
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Try rejecting her advances and see what happens. It's nice that she's comfortable with you, and good for you because you're getting laid. But try wrapping her mind around this: Next time she wants to hook up, politely decline and say, "No, we're just friends, remember?" If you want more from her, this could be a way to prompt it. Just a thought. Women can be so confusing. =)
 
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