"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Quick Question

Jamal

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Quick question...Usuallly in HS my opener would be Hi or Hey watsup...can I go straight to a story for a normal conversation or do I need to say something before I tell it...especially when it is a hot chick you dont know.
What would you do???
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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penkitten

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dear jamal,
you have no need for silly parlor tricks but only the need of confidence and courage to go up and speak to her.
your friend,
penkitten
 

CORVETTE06

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why are u gonna tell her a f-ing story. if you wanna tell stories go tell stories to children in nursery schoool.

just approach her and be confident like penkitten said
 

The Deacon

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I know this contradicts Mystery Method, but you can just talk about classes and sh*t. It's not what you say, it's how you say it. It's like that movie Hitch, "90% of what you're saying ain't coming out of your mouth." Go ahead, talk about classes and w/e. Talk about how your math teacher is a dork. Talk about that crappy assignment your teacher gave you. It's okay, really. The more experience you get, the less you have to think about what you're doing.
 
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