"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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So I admit ive never had a girlfriend so anyways ive been seeing this hb8 she is very cool and we actually have alot in common. I met her through a friend of mine. We have been on so far five dates she is very awesome. Like I feel like we get along really good we basically like the same music which is really cool. so anyways I want to make her my girlfriend now,so do I need to tell her hey do you want to be my girlfriend or how does that work? please help me out. im sorry if this question is dumb its just I really dont know.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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First of all you let her make you her boyfriend. Never ask her to be your girlfriend and do not tell her how you feel about her. Secondly have you had sex or even kissed her yet?
 
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Your window of opportunity is slipping away.
Set up a date in a couple of days and go in for a kiss.
Don't wait till the end of the date. Read her body language
as best you can and then make your move.
Man up and take the lead.
 
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I say next time you go out with her, read her as best as you can and try to warm her up to you (C+F, kino etc.) If you didn't relegate yourself to friendville, you might be able to move in.

Just bite the bullet and hope you didnt get LJBF.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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5 dates!? if you havent gotten far with her after 1 date ur likely just gonna be friends. Women want men. Men dont cautiously ask a girl to be their girlfriend.
 
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well we kiss and stuff but how do i know if shes my girlfriend yet? are you just suppost to assume then how does that work?
 
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killbill said:
So I admit ive never had a girlfriend so anyways ive been seeing this hb8 she is very cool and we actually have alot in common. I met her through a friend of mine. We have been on so far five dates she is very awesome. Like I feel like we get along really good we basically like the same music which is really cool. so anyways I want to make her my girlfriend now,so do I need to tell her hey do you want to be my girlfriend or how does that work? please help me out. im sorry if this question is dumb its just I really dont know.

take care everyone.
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killbill,

DO NOT verbalize your intent on the matter...

At no point will you bring up the subject. You will wait until SHE says something.
Youwill only show her your commitment and loyalty through ACTIONS.

You simply show her thorugh your actions.

Call her, talk to her, show her intimacy.

Ask her how her day was.
Make sure you are physically demonstrating your affection to her.

But don't go overboard with this "She's my GF now!!!"

5 dates is too early for young people, kill.

Take your time, slow things down.

Enjoy the moments you have with her. You can't do that if you're all anxious to get into her panties, and posses her.
You can't truly enjoy a woman's company if you're too inside your own head.


I know you're young, and are impatient and want her now..but trust me..wait a little longer.

See if you can get HER to start bringing up the "talk'.
 
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