"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So I admit ive never had a girlfriend so anyways ive been seeing this hb8 she is very cool and we actually have alot in common. I met her through a friend of mine. We have been on so far five dates she is very awesome. Like I feel like we get along really good we basically like the same music which is really cool. so anyways I want to make her my girlfriend now,so do I need to tell her hey do you want to be my girlfriend or how does that work? please help me out. im sorry if this question is dumb its just I really dont know.

take care everyone.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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First of all you let her make you her boyfriend. Never ask her to be your girlfriend and do not tell her how you feel about her. Secondly have you had sex or even kissed her yet?
 
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Your window of opportunity is slipping away.
Set up a date in a couple of days and go in for a kiss.
Don't wait till the end of the date. Read her body language
as best you can and then make your move.
Man up and take the lead.
 
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I say next time you go out with her, read her as best as you can and try to warm her up to you (C+F, kino etc.) If you didn't relegate yourself to friendville, you might be able to move in.

Just bite the bullet and hope you didnt get LJBF.

Good luck.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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5 dates!? if you havent gotten far with her after 1 date ur likely just gonna be friends. Women want men. Men dont cautiously ask a girl to be their girlfriend.
 
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well we kiss and stuff but how do i know if shes my girlfriend yet? are you just suppost to assume then how does that work?
 
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killbill said:
So I admit ive never had a girlfriend so anyways ive been seeing this hb8 she is very cool and we actually have alot in common. I met her through a friend of mine. We have been on so far five dates she is very awesome. Like I feel like we get along really good we basically like the same music which is really cool. so anyways I want to make her my girlfriend now,so do I need to tell her hey do you want to be my girlfriend or how does that work? please help me out. im sorry if this question is dumb its just I really dont know.

take care everyone.
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killbill,

DO NOT verbalize your intent on the matter...

At no point will you bring up the subject. You will wait until SHE says something.
Youwill only show her your commitment and loyalty through ACTIONS.

You simply show her thorugh your actions.

Call her, talk to her, show her intimacy.

Ask her how her day was.
Make sure you are physically demonstrating your affection to her.

But don't go overboard with this "She's my GF now!!!"

5 dates is too early for young people, kill.

Take your time, slow things down.

Enjoy the moments you have with her. You can't do that if you're all anxious to get into her panties, and posses her.
You can't truly enjoy a woman's company if you're too inside your own head.


I know you're young, and are impatient and want her now..but trust me..wait a little longer.

See if you can get HER to start bringing up the "talk'.
 
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