"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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aussiegoat55

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Went out on a fourth date, drove by a place my date said she wanted to go. I took note of it and I plan on surprising her by taking her there on the sixth date. It's not that expensive and I could make going there into an adventure. Then afterward drive to a secluded park and "hit a home run". I had some doubt as to if this was something wussy, AFC, or doing something she wants to do, giving in, somewhat letting her decide. Also there isn't any special occasion for this surprise like an anniversary or birthday. Lastly, she might see me taking her there a "bribe" or exchange for sex if we go to the park afterwards, didn't want that to be the case, maybe let her know my intentions?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I personally think that you're thinking way too much about it, just go out and have fun, sometimes it's better to let the mistakes happen to learn from them. BESIDES...we're human beings, not robots.
 
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go, making it the date after next is enough to throw her off a little. Rushing there the next available moment is afc. Taking her there when she does not expect it is not.
 
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Yes, you should write up a contract to make sure both parties are satisfied with the exchange of goods and services at the end of the night.

It's funny how dating is just like prostitution and we do everything to pretend its not.
 
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