"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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aussiegoat55

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Went out on a fourth date, drove by a place my date said she wanted to go. I took note of it and I plan on surprising her by taking her there on the sixth date. It's not that expensive and I could make going there into an adventure. Then afterward drive to a secluded park and "hit a home run". I had some doubt as to if this was something wussy, AFC, or doing something she wants to do, giving in, somewhat letting her decide. Also there isn't any special occasion for this surprise like an anniversary or birthday. Lastly, she might see me taking her there a "bribe" or exchange for sex if we go to the park afterwards, didn't want that to be the case, maybe let her know my intentions?

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I personally think that you're thinking way too much about it, just go out and have fun, sometimes it's better to let the mistakes happen to learn from them. BESIDES...we're human beings, not robots.
 
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go, making it the date after next is enough to throw her off a little. Rushing there the next available moment is afc. Taking her there when she does not expect it is not.
 
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Yes, you should write up a contract to make sure both parties are satisfied with the exchange of goods and services at the end of the night.

It's funny how dating is just like prostitution and we do everything to pretend its not.
 
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