Quick question

[aussiegoat55]

Went out on a fourth date, drove by a place my date said she wanted to go. I took note of it and I plan on surprising her by taking her there on the sixth date. It's not that expensive and I could make going there into an adventure. Then afterward drive to a secluded park and "hit a home run". I had some doubt as to if this was something wussy, AFC, or doing something she wants to do, giving in, somewhat letting her decide. Also there isn't any special occasion for this surprise like an anniversary or birthday. Lastly, she might see me taking her there a "bribe" or exchange for sex if we go to the park afterwards, didn't want that to be the case, maybe let her know my intentions?

Thanks for the opinions.

 

[The Zen Energy]

I personally think that you're thinking way too much about it, just go out and have fun, sometimes it's better to let the mistakes happen to learn from them. BESIDES...we're human beings, not robots.

 

[Bible_Belt]

go, making it the date after next is enough to throw her off a little. Rushing there the next available moment is afc. Taking her there when she does not expect it is not.

 

[Play the Game]

Yes, you should write up a contract to make sure both parties are satisfied with the exchange of goods and services at the end of the night.

It's funny how dating is just like prostitution and we do everything to pretend its not.