Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Quick question....

foxintehsnow

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Ok well tonight in about 2 hours im going to the movies with a girl i barly know. Ive talked to her Via I.Ms for about 4 years now. At one point we stoped talking then we met up @ school and started talking again. So tonight i was bored and so was she so im like. "lets hang out wanna go to the movies, bowling, chill @ my place, go for a walk, Or go to the mall or something" At this point she replyed Movies! and we made plains now i don't know what i should do this will be my frist time being alone with her/ being wiht her for a long time.. so im not sure if i should make a move or not?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Fuglydude

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Have some faith in him bro! haha
 

foxintehsnow

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lol man that wasent very nice im actualy not bad with girls.. jsut i guess i use to make fun of her because she was fat and now she isent :i lol i can only hope this goes well
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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oh i wasnt making fun of you... i was saying considering the time you posted it... and when i replied.. it was too late to give my advice.

howd it go
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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foxintehsnow

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Acutaly it went great dident really watch the movie we where making out the hole time. I belevie if i dident brush over the kino post b4 i left i wouldent have been so sucessful. But yha tomorrow second date :)
 

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Good job. Transform this into a new WIPFR thread so you can track your progress!

Hey! I win $5, but wait, I went double or nothing. Damn, I guess that means I get $10.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Docs said:
Hey! I win $5, but wait, I went double or nothing. Damn, I guess that means I get $10.
cool! and you can go suck you homosexual friends **** and his boyfriend.
 
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