"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quick question....

foxintehsnow

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Ok well tonight in about 2 hours im going to the movies with a girl i barly know. Ive talked to her Via I.Ms for about 4 years now. At one point we stoped talking then we met up @ school and started talking again. So tonight i was bored and so was she so im like. "lets hang out wanna go to the movies, bowling, chill @ my place, go for a walk, Or go to the mall or something" At this point she replyed Movies! and we made plains now i don't know what i should do this will be my frist time being alone with her/ being wiht her for a long time.. so im not sure if i should make a move or not?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Fuglydude

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Have some faith in him bro! haha
 

foxintehsnow

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lol man that wasent very nice im actualy not bad with girls.. jsut i guess i use to make fun of her because she was fat and now she isent :i lol i can only hope this goes well
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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oh i wasnt making fun of you... i was saying considering the time you posted it... and when i replied.. it was too late to give my advice.

howd it go
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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foxintehsnow

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Acutaly it went great dident really watch the movie we where making out the hole time. I belevie if i dident brush over the kino post b4 i left i wouldent have been so sucessful. But yha tomorrow second date :)
 

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Good job. Transform this into a new WIPFR thread so you can track your progress!

Hey! I win $5, but wait, I went double or nothing. Damn, I guess that means I get $10.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Docs said:
Hey! I win $5, but wait, I went double or nothing. Damn, I guess that means I get $10.
cool! and you can go suck you homosexual friends **** and his boyfriend.
 
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