"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Quick question...Why do women give LMR?

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More specifically, why do they say things like "We're not having sex tonight", when in fact (more often than not, at least) they do actually want it?

Do they not want to seem like a slut? Do they want plausible deniability to say "it just happened" to their friends afterwards?

Just wondering if anyone can explain the reasoning LMR, or give any thoughts on the matter.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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They don't want to FEEL like a slvt.

Remember. With women it's ALL about how she FEELS. How you make her FEEL.

She can justify anything to herself as long as she FEELS good about it.
 
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Purefilth said:
They don't want to FEEL like a slvt.

Remember. With women it's ALL about how she FEELS. How you make her FEEL.

She can justify anything to herself as long as she FEELS good about it.
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agreed

also some chicks will use the whole "we aren't having sex tonight" as a power trip

believe it or not a lot of women's main goals is too make herself your number one priority at any cost
 
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It's usually a good sign when a woman says that because then it's obvious sex is on her mind. I consider it a part last minute sh!t test to see how you react. In some cases she actually means it but that is usually an exception and given out with a sour b!tch face.

I had a girl invite me to her hotel room at midnight and said the same thing before we went in. I just laughed on the inside. Lay down on her bed of course, to watch TV. Had sex 20 minutes later.
 
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I take "we're not having sex tonight" to mean something along the lines of "I hope your not just seeing me for sex", as they always do it anyway.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I think part of the reason they say this, too, is because a part of them wants to feel like they're being "bad" or breaking some kind of rule. But, in order for them to do it, they need to have a rule to break. So, if they say "we're not having sex tonight," they've now made a rule that, in their head, they have to force themselves to stick to. But, of course, women don't want to be told what to do, even if it's coming from them, lol. So, out loud they're saying "we're not having sex tonight," but their subconscious is saying "you can't tell me what I am or am not doing, I'll have sex if I want to, dang it!"
 
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This is why women LOVE alcohol ("omg! I did that last night? I don't even remember!") Sometimes it's true, many times it's a way to sweep (rationalize) 'disgraceful behavior' under the rug despite fully remembering.
 
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You must spread some rep around before giving it to PureFilth again.
 
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Purefilth said:
They don't want to FEEL like a slvt.

Remember. With women it's ALL about how she FEELS. How you make her FEEL.

She can justify anything to herself as long as she FEELS good about it.
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Yeah, this pretty much covers it. Nicely put.
 
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