"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, it's DonJuanForever again!
Hey, I got some things to do but I wanted to create this post and check back a little later in the day on it.

Guys who have been around here a while tell me something, what poster on this site has given you the best overall advice on women that you USED IN THE FIELD (I have to express that because some of ya'll don't turn the computer off).

I know of Pook, Gunwitch, Anti-Dump, Senor Fingers, Ross, David. But I'm looking for more of guys that have not been talked about as much, but gave insight and advice that was very rewarding.

I'll check this post a little later in the evening.
Peace.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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There are a lot...too many to remember, but I'd like to throw Mindovermatter's name out here. He has been a huge inspiration and has a great attitude, but rarely gets much mention.
 
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Mind Over Matter, and Shezz. Great, anybody else?
I am looking for a guy who's info starts with AFCs and
goes up the ladder to Don Juan.

Reason being is that I want to help some of my boys out in their
relationships and I have a hard time explaining this stuff, lol.
 
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DonJuanForever said:
Reason being is that I want to help some of my boys out in their
relationships and I have a hard time explaining this stuff, lol.
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You giving out free advice? Better not. If they ask for your help then go ahead and teach them, otherwise its useless.

Also, its better if you gave your own experiences than being a self-procalimed expert just cause you read what someone more experienced wrote.



Just a thought.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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