"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quick Question To You Guys

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Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, it's DonJuanForever again!
Hey, I got some things to do but I wanted to create this post and check back a little later in the day on it.

Guys who have been around here a while tell me something, what poster on this site has given you the best overall advice on women that you USED IN THE FIELD (I have to express that because some of ya'll don't turn the computer off).

I know of Pook, Gunwitch, Anti-Dump, Senor Fingers, Ross, David. But I'm looking for more of guys that have not been talked about as much, but gave insight and advice that was very rewarding.

I'll check this post a little later in the evening.
Peace.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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There are a lot...too many to remember, but I'd like to throw Mindovermatter's name out here. He has been a huge inspiration and has a great attitude, but rarely gets much mention.
 
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Mind Over Matter, and Shezz. Great, anybody else?
I am looking for a guy who's info starts with AFCs and
goes up the ladder to Don Juan.

Reason being is that I want to help some of my boys out in their
relationships and I have a hard time explaining this stuff, lol.
 
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DonJuanForever said:
Reason being is that I want to help some of my boys out in their
relationships and I have a hard time explaining this stuff, lol.
You giving out free advice? Better not. If they ask for your help then go ahead and teach them, otherwise its useless.

Also, its better if you gave your own experiences than being a self-procalimed expert just cause you read what someone more experienced wrote.



Just a thought.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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