"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Quick question i prolly know the answer to...

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Ok so i go and pick up this chick at my work and my friend and i hangout with her and go to a party. The next mourning we go to church and im gettin good signals and stuff. We hangout that whole day till 3am. I take her home no kiss yet. I was supposed to hangout on tuesday but i cancel plans with her on that tuseday doesnt really spark any interstest. Then i hung out with her last sunday. Just watched a movie at her house.

But where i mested up on like last wednesday i asked her if she was into me. I dunno what i was thinking but on Sunday after i asked this I didnt really see a difference in signals. I was told to just drop it right off. Thanks for reading any suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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