"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Quick question: Are more of you here for hooking up or LTR's?

ToneDefJimmy

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I'm just curious how many DJ's are on the website looking for tail, and how many are here to up their game and get the kind of girl you know you deserve for a long term relationship.

Or hell, maybe you're here for both. I know I am.

This forum paved the way to all the 8 and 9's I've hooked up with, so I gotta say a big thank you to everyone here and everyone in the past that has given kickass advice.

Zach
Dallas, TX
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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comic_relief

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LTR

I'm currently in one right now and loving every second of it. Couldn't think of a better thing in the world then a LTR (being a big player and bedding many girls just isn't in me. Blame it on upbringing, I guess)
 

arutha

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Yeah both, just ideas in general for any kind of flirting or whatever. If it leads to hookups, I'll be happy for a while, or ltr I'd be happy enough to.

I think at the moment I wouldn't be able to stop myself flirting even if in an ltr, but oh well.
 
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