"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quick question: Are more of you here for hooking up or LTR's?

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ToneDefJimmy

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I'm just curious how many DJ's are on the website looking for tail, and how many are here to up their game and get the kind of girl you know you deserve for a long term relationship.

Or hell, maybe you're here for both. I know I am.

This forum paved the way to all the 8 and 9's I've hooked up with, so I gotta say a big thank you to everyone here and everyone in the past that has given kickass advice.

Zach
Dallas, TX
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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comic_relief

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LTR

I'm currently in one right now and loving every second of it. Couldn't think of a better thing in the world then a LTR (being a big player and bedding many girls just isn't in me. Blame it on upbringing, I guess)
 
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arutha

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Yeah both, just ideas in general for any kind of flirting or whatever. If it leads to hookups, I'll be happy for a while, or ltr I'd be happy enough to.

I think at the moment I wouldn't be able to stop myself flirting even if in an ltr, but oh well.
 
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