"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Quick question: Are more of you here for hooking up or LTR's?

ToneDefJimmy

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I'm just curious how many DJ's are on the website looking for tail, and how many are here to up their game and get the kind of girl you know you deserve for a long term relationship.

Or hell, maybe you're here for both. I know I am.

This forum paved the way to all the 8 and 9's I've hooked up with, so I gotta say a big thank you to everyone here and everyone in the past that has given kickass advice.

Zach
Dallas, TX
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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comic_relief

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LTR

I'm currently in one right now and loving every second of it. Couldn't think of a better thing in the world then a LTR (being a big player and bedding many girls just isn't in me. Blame it on upbringing, I guess)
 

arutha

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Yeah both, just ideas in general for any kind of flirting or whatever. If it leads to hookups, I'll be happy for a while, or ltr I'd be happy enough to.

I think at the moment I wouldn't be able to stop myself flirting even if in an ltr, but oh well.
 
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