"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Quick question about sucking in...

diablo

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Just out of curiosity, how many of you suck your gut in? I know, it's a pretty stupid question, but I find myself wondering how often I do it without even noticing... For example, go to the mirror, and push your stomach out all the way. Pretty fat, eh? Now put it in it's place - the way you normally carry it. Then, put it like you'd have it at the beach. Notice any difference?

Just a random useless thread - feel free to leave any comments or death threats as needed.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I've read that you SHOULD "suck in" your gut, especially when working your abs. The muscles you use to suck in you stomach are behind your abdominal wall and need working out as well to become firm. If these mucsles don't get worked like your abs then you might end up having a six pack that "sticks out".
 

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I make it a point not to, especially at the beach. It seems like such a superficial thing to do whenever I see people do it.
 

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the joys of being skinny

i shove my stomach out to show my abs at their best :D

that must be a good thing right?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mercenary

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Originally posted by chim_chim
I know someone that got a hernia doing that. :)
doing what exactly?

you can get a hernia by sneezing
 

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i have abs that stick out. its kinda cool because i actually have muscles there instead of little skinny guys that are happy because they have a flat six pack. ha. well you can do vaccuums that are supposed to pull your abs back in by strengthening your inner ab muscles. i havent been dong them consistantly so im not really sure abou thtme yet. my only problem is that i think if my abs didnt stick out as much it would make my chest look bigger
 

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I suck it in all the time, I have the under the shirt suck, and then the noshirt suck.

Except if I've just eaten a meal, in which case I often forget.

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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
Just out of curiosity, how many of you suck your gut in? I know, it's a pretty stupid question, but I find myself wondering how often I do it without even noticing... For example, go to the mirror, and push your stomach out all the way. Pretty fat, eh? Now put it in it's place - the way you normally carry it. Then, put it like you'd have it at the beach. Notice any difference?

Just a random useless thread - feel free to leave any comments or death threats as needed.


Lol I do it all the time. Well except when im at home. I do the same exact thing in the mirror too. It just makes me feel a bit more confident.
 
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