"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quick question about sucking in...

diablo

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Just out of curiosity, how many of you suck your gut in? I know, it's a pretty stupid question, but I find myself wondering how often I do it without even noticing... For example, go to the mirror, and push your stomach out all the way. Pretty fat, eh? Now put it in it's place - the way you normally carry it. Then, put it like you'd have it at the beach. Notice any difference?

Just a random useless thread - feel free to leave any comments or death threats as needed.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've read that you SHOULD "suck in" your gut, especially when working your abs. The muscles you use to suck in you stomach are behind your abdominal wall and need working out as well to become firm. If these mucsles don't get worked like your abs then you might end up having a six pack that "sticks out".
 

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I make it a point not to, especially at the beach. It seems like such a superficial thing to do whenever I see people do it.
 

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the joys of being skinny

i shove my stomach out to show my abs at their best :D

that must be a good thing right?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mercenary

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Originally posted by chim_chim
I know someone that got a hernia doing that. :)
doing what exactly?

you can get a hernia by sneezing
 

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i have abs that stick out. its kinda cool because i actually have muscles there instead of little skinny guys that are happy because they have a flat six pack. ha. well you can do vaccuums that are supposed to pull your abs back in by strengthening your inner ab muscles. i havent been dong them consistantly so im not really sure abou thtme yet. my only problem is that i think if my abs didnt stick out as much it would make my chest look bigger
 

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I suck it in all the time, I have the under the shirt suck, and then the noshirt suck.

Except if I've just eaten a meal, in which case I often forget.

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Originally posted by [T]he ishop
Just out of curiosity, how many of you suck your gut in? I know, it's a pretty stupid question, but I find myself wondering how often I do it without even noticing... For example, go to the mirror, and push your stomach out all the way. Pretty fat, eh? Now put it in it's place - the way you normally carry it. Then, put it like you'd have it at the beach. Notice any difference?

Just a random useless thread - feel free to leave any comments or death threats as needed.


Lol I do it all the time. Well except when im at home. I do the same exact thing in the mirror too. It just makes me feel a bit more confident.
 
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