"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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quick question about kino

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im still new at this and im getting comfortable making approaches now, but what im really lacking is kino. i dont know when to start it or how.:confused:

if anyone could give me some examples or experiences id appreciate that. im still new here, so even a point in the right direction to a thread would be nice :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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well heres ones i like, just say if u c a girl who dosn't look exactlly tonk, but is lifting weights anyway. just say "o i don't c girls usually lift up weights" feel her arm and smile and say "r u trying to build ur biceps". Kino is anythink though just touch her arm gently, move her hair out of her eyes and put it behind her ear. I am no master at this, just knows it shows results, if u need more advice jus look in don juan bible link is at bottom page it has a section on kino alone i think.
 
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The first "Kino" move a boy makes is in grade school when he pulls a girls hair - for some reason this doesn't work when you become a man - I don't know why.
 

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While your telling her something interesting, put your hand on her thigh for a second. Or tell her something funny and put your hand on her arm. Ideally she should initiate kino, as this is womens nature when they are attracted to you
 

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just simple as that? im sure if we are standing touching her thigh would be odd, but i get the mindset. thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I would stay above the waist if you are just meeting. Let her go below the waist if she wants, not you! A quick touch on the back of the arm, nothing more than 1 second.

If she doesn't reciprocate then discontinue.
 

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I think a good way to start is:
- when you are telling her something, grab the arm between the elbow and shoulder.
- maybe youll like to try her back (a bit lower than the shoulder) or the upper part of the hips? (haha sorry im not too good with english)

I think the key here is:
1. At first it may be ackward but: Youll only achieve confortableness by practicing.
2. When practicing just touch where you wanna feel. (haha not there dude!) but you could check her hips or neck if youd like to.

If youre in for the girl: apply gradually more Kino, dont be afraid to touch a bit more. Is ok if she stops you. Belive, me: ITS BETTER THAN NOT TRYING AT ALL.

Good Luck!
 

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Dongfu said:
While your telling her something interesting, put your hand on her thigh for a second. Or tell her something funny and put your hand on her arm. Ideally she should initiate kino, as this is womens nature when they are attracted to you
No way? Usually kino hots up after *I* make first move? I kept kinoing some girl, and after some time she did start to do it back. I am yet to experience a girl initiating kino, in FACT, they usually apologise if they brush right up against me in some shape or form.

Plus it's pretty damn awkward in office/classroom settings, prepare for ULTIMATE c*ckblocking from ALL, even guys who want a piece of her too!

Eg:

*hand on her neck*
*she likes it*
C*ckblocker: *Clever remark* (couldn't come up with any good examples)
*awkwardness*

If you have tight game you can usually defuse it but I am not that good yet.
 

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Usually, I'll tap a girl against the shoulder with the back of my hand as I'm changing subjects as if I just remembered to tell her something.

Ex.

"..........oh hey! Did you hear about blah, blah, blah?" *tap, tap*


Then I'll pat her on the knee as I'm winding it down.

"That's pretty much how it happens." *pat, pat*


Then I'll get up and leave to go get another drink or something and rub my hand across her back as I'm leaving.

"I'm gonna go get another beer." *get up* "I'll be right back." *rub hand across back as I'm leaving* *walk away without looking back*
 

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go google the Dicarlo Escalation Ladder

it'll keep you from misapplying kino and wonderinging wtf happened
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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