So this girl I've known for years, but never have been friends with, I've realized has started to take a liking to me. During a game of "The Awkward Question" game my friends and I play often, she revealed that if she could kiss anyone in our group, it would be me and that if she had to marry anyone, it would be me. Her being attractive, I also answered her for the questions when they came around to me.
Now, a few days later we started talking (she initiated the conversation on facebook) and we talked for about 4 hours and during the conversation I asked her out and she said yes, but we had to wait until the weather was nicer and she was free. (that date is coming up at the end of the week) Now we only see each other twice a week so over the next week we talked primarily on facebook and I would initiate the conversation most of the time, and I would try to stray away from AFC habits like talking about myself of chitchatting about the day. But I felt AFCish being the one initiating all the time, as she would never do it first despite being online for hours. (Yes, I realize how AFCish this sounds, im working on it) During our conversations Ive shown interest by calling her babe twice and also subtlety calling her cute and doing lame lines about protecting her and holding her. She's also been into the idea of me holding her hand But as always, I strayed away from sounding too AFC. She still texts me occasionally, but I've tried to cut it down because I don't want to become LJBF'd or a texting buddy.
But now whenever I see her in person, she doesn't even acknowledge me unless I talk to her first, and when I go up and talk to her she seems much more interested in what other people have to say and wont look at me for longer than 5 seconds. Now I hate trying to decipher if a girl is interested or not, but I'd rather know than sit here like a dope, as I don't really care either way. But she seems much more interested during our conversations online or in texts. Maybe she's shy?
So what do you say, is she into me or not?
Also am I being too AFC? I feel like I am with all this stupid worrying.
Now, a few days later we started talking (she initiated the conversation on facebook) and we talked for about 4 hours and during the conversation I asked her out and she said yes, but we had to wait until the weather was nicer and she was free. (that date is coming up at the end of the week) Now we only see each other twice a week so over the next week we talked primarily on facebook and I would initiate the conversation most of the time, and I would try to stray away from AFC habits like talking about myself of chitchatting about the day. But I felt AFCish being the one initiating all the time, as she would never do it first despite being online for hours. (Yes, I realize how AFCish this sounds, im working on it) During our conversations Ive shown interest by calling her babe twice and also subtlety calling her cute and doing lame lines about protecting her and holding her. She's also been into the idea of me holding her hand But as always, I strayed away from sounding too AFC. She still texts me occasionally, but I've tried to cut it down because I don't want to become LJBF'd or a texting buddy.
But now whenever I see her in person, she doesn't even acknowledge me unless I talk to her first, and when I go up and talk to her she seems much more interested in what other people have to say and wont look at me for longer than 5 seconds. Now I hate trying to decipher if a girl is interested or not, but I'd rather know than sit here like a dope, as I don't really care either way. But she seems much more interested during our conversations online or in texts. Maybe she's shy?
So what do you say, is she into me or not?
Also am I being too AFC? I feel like I am with all this stupid worrying.