Sir Psycho Sexy
Senior Don Juan
Im currently bed shopping.
Just curious, nothing more...
Just curious, nothing more...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
quick poll:What size bed do you sleep in?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Fortress Maximus
Don Juan
Queen all the way. With a girl it's comfortable and sleeping by yourself in it is amazing.
Get a California King, man. Might be quite a bit after the sheets and everything though.
Get a California King, man. Might be quite a bit after the sheets and everything though.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
You want at least a queen. I wouldn't bother with a king unless you live in a house and the master bedroom is very large.
Sir Psycho Sexy
Senior Don Juan
My parents offered their old queen mattress. They want to get a king I guess. It would save me lots of $$$ but only worth it if I could get over some disturbing thoughts.
Mr.Positive
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You want a queen size, plenty of room for a guy and gal to have fun.
You don't want a gal that requires a king size.
You don't want a gal that requires a king size.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Sir Psycho Sexy
Senior Don Juan
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Cal King (sleep like normal, sideways, diagonal, any way you like and fit as many ladies as you like). Of course it takes half the room, but hey...what's a bedroom for? Fuk and Sleep!
Didn't get much sleep in college due to working, internship, and school. When I graduated from college several years ago, I promised myself that I will get the best mattress I could afford and sleep for days and days. I stepped inside a furniture store and saw the largest mattress there and said I will take that.
Didn't get much sleep in college due to working, internship, and school. When I graduated from college several years ago, I promised myself that I will get the best mattress I could afford and sleep for days and days. I stepped inside a furniture store and saw the largest mattress there and said I will take that.