"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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quick poll:What size bed do you sleep in?

What size bed do you sleep in?


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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fortress Maximus

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Queen all the way. With a girl it's comfortable and sleeping by yourself in it is amazing.

Get a California King, man. Might be quite a bit after the sheets and everything though.
 

Maxtro

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You want at least a queen. I wouldn't bother with a king unless you live in a house and the master bedroom is very large.
 

Sir Psycho Sexy

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My parents offered their old queen mattress. They want to get a king I guess. It would save me lots of $$$ but only worth it if I could get over some disturbing thoughts.
 

Mr.Positive

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You want a queen size, plenty of room for a guy and gal to have fun.

You don't want a gal that requires a king size. :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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L B

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Cal King (sleep like normal, sideways, diagonal, any way you like and fit as many ladies as you like). Of course it takes half the room, but hey...what's a bedroom for? Fuk and Sleep!

Didn't get much sleep in college due to working, internship, and school. When I graduated from college several years ago, I promised myself that I will get the best mattress I could afford and sleep for days and days. I stepped inside a furniture store and saw the largest mattress there and said I will take that.
 
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