"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am doing a survey of who is in the seduction community:



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How many hear work in or have a good working knowledge of computers?

How many here are getting or have a higher degree education?

How many here would consider themselves to be on the higher side of the IQ charts?

What is your race and your age?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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2. yes
3. Definatly
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shaunuk

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1. yes, professional (hired) computer hacker

2. yeah getting BSc in chemistry

3. yeah

4. British (caucasian), 19
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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have 2 degrees.
Maybe a lil over the ave IQ
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ehh, more street smart than booksmart... but at least average on IQ
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TheRealSupreme said:
I am doing a survey of who is in the seduction community:



Quick pole:



How many hear work in or have a good working knowledge of computers?

How many here are getting or have a higher degree education?

How many here would consider themselves to be on the higher side of the IQ charts?

What is your race and your age?
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Getting one
It's between 120-125
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http://playersupreme.libsyn.com/index.php?post_id=359408

a show from a guy who used to be on this board. Lee Majors.

I should of done this debate years ago with anyone from the community on the value of eye contact for it's members to have a happy dating experience without all of those flakes and the other bull that comes with the game.
 
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Supreme, i have a big respect for ur game and what u've contributed on this forum and in dating in general but there are a few things i disagree and have a different opinion of.

Shouldn't we be willing to risk rejection? Shouldn't we be at peace with it? So what if a girl is not looking at us. Some women can't see us if they're walking on the opposite side. How are we giving our power away. I'm a cold approacher, and some women who i've never gotten eye contact with have been the ones who were VERY receptive and some women who even gave me e/c were playing much more hard to get. I'd say we should do both.

Doesn't a confident man go for what he wants regardless if she rejects him or not? Isn't that the point of getting over fear? Doesn't a man make himself put himself out there willing to risk his ego to even get the b1tches who don't even give e/c?

I believe that looking for eye contact from girls only, also can hold u back from the tons of others u can just go up to if she so happens to not feel u. Also i agree, it seems the School of Dating doesn't really go into anything. They'll just either rant, laugh, or just make fun of something for 30 min to an hour without going in to it. Ur Show OWNS there completely, i aint gonna lie to u.
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21. Black.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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