"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I am doing a survey of who is in the seduction community:



Quick pole:



How many hear work in or have a good working knowledge of computers?

How many here are getting or have a higher degree education?

How many here would consider themselves to be on the higher side of the IQ charts?

What is your race and your age?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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2. yeah getting BSc in chemistry

3. yeah

4. British (caucasian), 19
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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have 2 degrees.
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheRealSupreme said:
I am doing a survey of who is in the seduction community:



Quick pole:



How many hear work in or have a good working knowledge of computers?

How many here are getting or have a higher degree education?

How many here would consider themselves to be on the higher side of the IQ charts?

What is your race and your age?
Yes
Getting one
It's between 120-125
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http://playersupreme.libsyn.com/index.php?post_id=359408

a show from a guy who used to be on this board. Lee Majors.

I should of done this debate years ago with anyone from the community on the value of eye contact for it's members to have a happy dating experience without all of those flakes and the other bull that comes with the game.
 

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Supreme, i have a big respect for ur game and what u've contributed on this forum and in dating in general but there are a few things i disagree and have a different opinion of.

Shouldn't we be willing to risk rejection? Shouldn't we be at peace with it? So what if a girl is not looking at us. Some women can't see us if they're walking on the opposite side. How are we giving our power away. I'm a cold approacher, and some women who i've never gotten eye contact with have been the ones who were VERY receptive and some women who even gave me e/c were playing much more hard to get. I'd say we should do both.

Doesn't a confident man go for what he wants regardless if she rejects him or not? Isn't that the point of getting over fear? Doesn't a man make himself put himself out there willing to risk his ego to even get the b1tches who don't even give e/c?

I believe that looking for eye contact from girls only, also can hold u back from the tons of others u can just go up to if she so happens to not feel u. Also i agree, it seems the School of Dating doesn't really go into anything. They'll just either rant, laugh, or just make fun of something for 30 min to an hour without going in to it. Ur Show OWNS there completely, i aint gonna lie to u.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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